Okay so i am 19 and my boyfriend is 20. We’ve been together for over 2 years. He came to america when he was 6 from Honduras and he is apart of DACA. Keep in mind I’m white.

Anyways, my parents are accepting of him (it took a while but they fell in love) but my other family not so much ... my aunt and uncle and my cousins are huge trump supporters and they talk SO badly about him. They always make rude and disgusting comments to me about him. Stuff like he will never go to college (he got a $20,000 scholarship to a private university for soccer) and he will never make anything of himself and constantly saying stuff about his family and how they want to deport his family.

Now my parents are so nice to them ... when they were struggling for money my parents gave them over $1500 and a CAR. It was my car and it had a “defend DACA” sticker on it and my uncle and cousin sent me a photo of them taking it off my car and burning it. (They sold the car after and kept the money and made my mom pay to change the title of the car.. I know right) Then of course I defended daca and there was this huge argument and they said awful things and my cousin admitted to saying the N word and he’s the whitest kid I’ve ever seen. They are awful people. I would go to their kids high school football and basketball games even if they were 2 hours away and would cheer them on every game. They never came to a single one of my high school lacrosse games. They are very selfish and racist people. They claim to be huge christians but they are anything but it. So my family told them that we are done with their remarks and racism and we’ve blocked them all on social media and haven’t talked to them since.

They have a little 4 year old daughter who is my world. She is my favorite thing ever and I go swimming and out to lunch with her all the time. She asked me to come to her birthday party and of course I would love to but I just dont think I can see her parents and brothers. I know if I see them I wouldnt be able to keep my cool. My parents keep saying to be the bigger person and act like they don’t bother me but I just know I wouldn’t be able to see them and not give them a peace of my mind.

What should I do?