My current mind set is one and done. I don't even want to consider another child until my daughter is at least 5. She is almost 17 months. Hubby has always been on board with that, even discussed getting snipped so I can get off birth control. But lately he's been mentioning having a second. Today he put his hand on my stomach and was like "(gasp) Yep, I knew it, there's a baby in there!" It was so unexpected that I laughed so damn hard and just swatted him away and said stop being dumb lol. Like...no thank you. I am just starting to get back in shape, and I am about to stop breastfeeding soon. I'd like my body back for myself for a little while before I even consider another one.