Desperate for clarity

Theodora • TTC # 1 IVF 🙏 Unexplained infertility/endometriosis

I am incredibly confused. I’ve asked a variety of questions just in regards to charting ovulation using your temperature. I’ve received so many different responses for example regarding the dip that so many people say happens before you ovulate. People say you can [if you are charting your temperature regularly] prepare for ovulation when you notice around the 14th day of your cycle if there is a sudden death in temperature. Then somebody told me that that happens after ovulation not before. Van so many things have been added to that take confuse me even more. I am so desperate to understand. What happens during ones cycle (let’s say a normal, regular,25 day cycle), Day one I believe is the first day you get your periods but after that I’m lost as to when is the best time to BD when of my going to ovulate, what are the signs, is there anything that could help me, I am right in thinking that ovulation takes place around day 14? Is there a dip and is it indicative of ovulation? I know I sound absolutely stupid but because of so many mix answers I am now confused and worried that I’ve been making so many mistakes and next month I want to try again and I want to be able to have the information correctly. Anyone who helps I would be so grateful