Bye virginity

lost my virginity Thursday, we did it again on Saturday and so we did yesterday. It was w my bf, he is 5 years older than I and wasn’t virgin, he was so respectful and keep asking me if it hurts and if I want him to stop however I didn’t say anything til it really hurt bc I know its kind of normal to feel uncomfortable the firsts times. The foreplay last about 30-45 minutes and then he puts on the comdon and penetrate me. Sex doesn’t really last a lot, about 10-15 minutes I think, bc I ask him to stop bc it starts hurting. Is it normal? I’m kinda afraid that he isn’t enjoying it it bc of me. Help