Constantly rejected for sex

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I have NEVER had this problem before, but my current bf of a year never wants to have sex if I initiate. He’s either too tired (he is military and works long, hard days) too full from eating or says “later” and then later never comes. A LADY HAS NEEDS, DANG IT! I’m not asking for it a million times a day, once a day is good enough for me...

Any ideas on how to address this issue without hurting his ego? 🤔