Conceiving after a miscarriage tips?

Miranda

I miscarried in November the day before thanksgiving, 5 weeks later I had to have an emergency d&c; because I started hemorrhaging at work and was half dead when I go to the hospital doctor said anymore blood loss and I wouldn’t have woken up, it’s now been 8 months since, going on 9 months now af showed up on Saturday, I don’t understand why it’s taking so long, I made an apt with my doctor for next week Monday, I’m scared something happened during the D&C; because that’s my luck, or we just got really lucky the first time we got pregnant, all my husband and I want is a baby and I’m getting so discouraged, we’ve been trying now for over a year with 1 failed pregnancy. anyone have any similar situations? Or any words of encouragement?