Would any of you feel like your partners hoe if the only times you actually get to see them and hand out they would you to a hotel? Me and my partner have been together for 3 Years now. Things have changed in the past 2 Years to the point where is difficult to see each other. So we usually see each other once a week. He’s always working and I understand since he does have a lot of payments to do + Provide for his children. He says “well how do you expect me not to want sex since we don’t do it as often”. Like if it’s an obligation for us to have sex. I understand it’s an important factor in a relationship but definitely not an obligation. I just want us to enjoy a day at the beach or the park maybe a nice meal. He says “ well we didn’t really have time to plan anything”. When just yesterday he decided to take his children back to school shopping and after that grabbed some pizza and watched a movie. Like why can’t he just do that for me? Why do we need to end up at a hotel? And by the way I can’t be around his children because of the baby mama. And apparently he rather have her happy by listening. It’s gotten to the point where I just really need someone to tell me that I’m not being stupid for feeling like his hoe. Im at a point where it could make or break things. I’ve had enough and I think I deserve more than hotel dates.