You’re married to a nice guy, always willing to help a friend in need, even if that friend is a woman. So women take advantage of his kindness, by asking him for money, rides, lunch, etc. How does that make you feel?

Mi • Tue, Jul 24

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Hypothetical scenario.

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I'd be pissed if my husband was giving money to others without talking to me first. Being nice and being gullible are two different things, and if he's gullible he needs to change.

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Honestly I would just talk to him about it and be very calm about that

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Did he ask me he is my husband
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No even if he asked.
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Repeat steps 1-2.

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I wouldn't be angry, but I'd talk to him and let him know that I think he's being taken advantage of

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I’ve gone through all four options... which is why I’m commenting. He’s never loaned money, but he’s a very helpful guy. 
My husband’s friendliness/charm is irritating mostly when I feel neglected (which can be influenced by my cycles/life), and of all the times we’ve talked about this, coming at him calmly, and making “I statements” to show vulnerability, is definitely the best route.

You’re married to a nice guy, always willing to help a friend in need, even if that friend is a woman. So women take advantage of his kindness, by asking him for money, rides, lunch, etc. How does that make you feel?

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