I had found out i was pregnant with baby #2 last November and miscarried at 11weeks&6days... about 2 weeks after miscarrying a friend from work came over. She found out she was pregnant with #4 about a month before i found out I was expecting again. She asked me how I was doing mentally and physical but then she said something that just floored me... She didn't want the baby she was carrying and "jokingly" said she had been wanting to miscarry. She asked me what it was like! I told her it was like losing a piece of your soul. Then she said if she could "transfer" her baby to me she would in a heartbeat. It hurt me deeply, i had just lost my baby and to hear her say she wished she had lost hers just tore me up... I get that she didn't want another baby but to say that was just cold and heartless. Has anybody said anything to you after losing a baby that just almost broke you even more?