I am turning 30 years old soon.

I know it might sound silly, but I keep comparing myself to my 22 year old self or these younger women on YouTube who have great bodies. I am happy with my face, my hair and I enjoy doing my makeup and hair.

But my weight bothers me. I need to lose about 15lbs. I miss being confident in my sexy body. 3 kids and married life have treated me well in every way, except the body issues that came with it.

Just wanted to vent. Any ideas how to turn this switch off in my head and stop feeling guilty that I don’t look “hot” any more?