so like my boyfriend and i have really good sex, it’s both good for him and i. i never had an orgasm/squirting in my life, and i’ve told him that i wanted to experience it. when he would give me oral and use his fingers, it would feel amazing! and i would feel like i really need to pee which i’ve heard it’s normal but i have never been able to like let it happen. so are there any tips to having an orgasm? should i not think of it when i feel that feeling on needing to pee? should i relax ?