Husband feeling the pressure? 😩

Question

So how do you all stop your SO feeling the pressure during your fertile week 🤷‍♀️
Every other time throughout my cycle is no problem for him at all, (always finishes) but as soon as I hit peak it's fine first day and second but not the third 😩😩 its so frustrating for him and me 
I know he feels under pressure knowing  how much this means for us and I can't really pretend I'm not in my fertile week to trick him 🤔 as he will guess with the increased amount of baby dancing every day 🙈🙈 
We have been ttc #3 for 14months with no luck I'm feeling so down and frustrated and just about ready to give up 😢

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I don’t think you’re making it like a chore, it’s just hard to keep it feeling natural and spontaneous when you both know it’s a military operation! 
I feel your pain love; we’re trying for our second and finding time to have “spontaneous” sex between my husband’s night shifts, my 9-5, and our son’s waking hours (7-7) is really hard! 
I’m hoping that every-other-day will be enough, otherwise we just end up stressed if our son won’t go to sleep before my husband leaves for work! We conceived our son with only 2 sessions during the fertile window, so I know it’s possible! 🙏
Big hugs and babydust to you! Xxx

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I used to tell my fiance when I was in my fertile week too but i I stopped and decided to randomly bd every other day same as when I'm in my fertile week. That way he can't figure out when I'm ovulating. Don't stress about it either,just have fun. Good luck💞

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Don’t tell him about it. He doesn’t really need to know your fertile days etc - that will just put pressure on him to perform.

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Yep! Which was why I stopped telling him when my fertile week was. He was starting to feel bad when we didn’t have sex or when the pressure was on. I just decided to secretly log it in this app and not say anything. Worked like a charm!

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When the ttc started to affect my husband I stopped telling him when it was ovulation time. I could see the pressure he felt and it made our love making feel like a chore - when in fact it's never been a chore for me. 
We did conceive in our 11th cycle, but sadly miscarried at 11 weeks, so we are now back to trying - first month this month. we are both wanting to try again, we both want our baby.. but I don't want him feeling the pressure again ..so although I'm due to ovulate this Friday - he thinks we already ovulated ;)

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I’m going through the same thing. Pressure is getting to him. It’s actually put him off.

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We really don't make it a chore but we know it has to be done if you get me? and with two other children in the house and me working nights we try our best to have some time together before I leave for work which is very limited 🙁 
I wish I didn't have to work nights and then it wouldn't be such a "rush job" but it isn't always like this it just so happens to be that my ovulation fell on my working nights this month 😩 x

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Kind of should like you’re making it more like a chore than fun. Once you stop stressing and relax they say is when it happens. Good luck and baby dust!

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