My hubby and I have had a up and down sex life. He doesn’t have a lot of confidence and cums really quickly. He is great with foreplay, but when he have sex he cums within 2 mins and then goes to clean himself off and then to sleep.

He doesn’t even attempt to give me an orgasm, he just gives up. I don’t know how to approach it.

He has tried in the past, but hasn’t been able to make me cum. I think it affected his confidence to where he doesn’t want to try.

It’s make me not want to have sex anymore because it’s not pleasurable for me.

Advice?