Okay ladies I need help with bras!

Where can I get a good bra with good support that isn't "grannyish" And doesn't tear up after a few wears. Victoria Secret is good support but omg they don't hold up long, and I've tried third love which they hold up but they are grannyish and don't support very much, more like a lounge around bra, I want support but I don't want pushup bra cause I feel like I can't breathe with those fuckers on lol. I wear a 38c and feel likes that's one of the hardest "normal" sizes to find 😒