So this pregnancy was completely unplanned (although we are still thrilled about it) because we have a lot going on lately, we just moved out of our house at the end of June and have been living with my mother in law while we renovate the house across the street from her. So our lives have kinda been put on hold until this is done, and on top of that I have my friends wedding in February and now I’ll be super pregnant for it, which I was trying to avoid. Oh well. So anyway, my husband doesn’t wanna tell very many people so I’ve told the few I’ve been given the ok on, which includes my mother, my twin brother, and two of my friends and their significant others. He doesn’t want his mom to know just yet, which is getting difficult for me since we are currently living with her. So one day, my daughter and I were talking about her baby doll and I asked if she wanted another baby (she has a 10 1/2 month old brother) and she said yes, and I asked if she wanted a brother or sister and she said a baby sister. So I didn’t specifically tell her I’m having another baby, but she got it in her head and mentioned it in front of my mil and I had to outright lie and say I do not have a baby in my belly, as she puts it. And my mil’s reaction was pretty negative and now I’m super stressed out all the time. She thinks it’s way too soon and not a good time to be having another baby. And just thinking about it makes me so sad. And now I understand why my husband didn’t want to tell his mother 😂😭