I'm SO sick of seeing all these women post these very personal posts asking for legitimate advice bc they feel alone, so they turn to complete freaking strangers for help, and then EVERY SINGLE ONE of these comments man. why is it that the first thing every one of y'all on here jump to is "Leave your man!" or "It's abuse" like I get some posts this may be relavent to, but come on. it's got to the point where women have to take the time to add"PS please be nice, please don't be negative, I'm not leaving him, I love him" shit at the bottom of their post. and then the first ten comments are "leave now" like WHY. DID YOU EVEN READ THE WHOLE THING? WHY CANT WE BE MORE SUPPORTIVE OF EACH OTHER?! HELL, IF YOU AINT GOT NOTHING TO SAY THEN MOVE ALONG. K? BYE.