i just need a few minutes to complain. ugh. so let's start out that my in laws have no clue that i dont like them, but they well deserve me not liking them. so im 35w1d today me and my husband for the last month have been planning a mini vacation that we plan on taking tomorrow till saturday morning, a one last vacation with our 3 kids before we have 1 more. my nephews birthday was 2 days ago and i asked over a month ago what was the plan for his birthday, with no response(doesn't suprise me they ignored me with my other nephews birthday and just didnt invite us despite that we all live in the same town).....till yesterday. now my mother in law is asking if we can go to his party that they are planning last minute for....... Friday! like wait what?! really? i can't reschedule our vacation, i barely got approval from my doctor for these dates. and who the hell does a birthday party on a friday? for a 8 year old! they get so mad when we dont make family events but 1 they barely invite us to any, and say oops we thought we did and 2 when they do it is always like less than 3 days from the event! my husband thinks im over reacting as we were planning to come back to the area friday night and stay at a hotel in the area just so the kids can have a longer vacation and one of my sister in laws work there so it is a great discount to a really nice hotel. they have done so many crudy things my whole pregnancy is it really wrong of me to be so mad at them right now? i might just be so mad because of everything leading up to this, but it just seems so wrong, i always work around their schedules