My husband and I are GOOD people. We are kind, hard working people who want nothing more in the world than to have a baby.... and the struggle has been real. I’ve recently expressed to my sister-in-law how I’m worried we will never get pregnant.

Tonight I’m feeling like a really bad person. We were given the news that his sister and her boyfriend are expecting. They have been together for a year. She’s hard working, and driven. He’s got two kids from a previous relationship he doesn’t have custody of, he’s on the run from the police due to a warrant he has for his arrest, makes empty promises to her, takes her car and disappears nights on end, and is just honestly overall not in the relationship as much as she is.

I know she loves him, and I know she’s happy about her pregnancy, but I’m having a really hard time being happy for them. I feel terrible for being like this, but it’s beyond frustrating that someone in that situation can achieve something that my husband and I have been trying to do for so long.