Stressed , advice please

so my whole life my parents have been fighting over me and I always choose my mom and put my dad through some very bad stuff due to my mom and now I want to go to a new school so I want to go to school where my father lives it is like 25 mins away and I have a car so I can go back and forth to see my mom during the week day but she is saying no because the school I currently attend has better credentials but it is irrelevant to me cause I just plan to go to community college anyway and she is saying if I decide to go to she taking my pops to court , idk what to do because this is the first big decision I ever made and I feel very strongly about it