Separation Anxiety

This might get a little long but I’m just curious if anyone else can relate and what you might suggest I do about any of this. I’m going on a year with my man, he’s wonderful. The only issues I have come completely from myself. I find myself becoming so jealous for no reason. I completely trust him and he’s such an incredibly good man, but whenever I see some of the girls he’s works with at the bar he works for, sometimes I get a tinge of self consciousness I guess. For no reason other than my own insecurities about myself.

I’ve gotten better at loving myself but sometimes I slip back into a bad mindset.

A few weeks ago he told me about a cook from the bar asked him if he was dating a girl named Holly that he worked with, and he decided to mess with him and told him yes, that’s his work girlfriend and I’m his other girlfriend. I get that it’s a joke but I don’t think he would think it was funny if it was vice versa.

Lately I find myself a little annoyed when he goes out for drinks with a few co workers after his shift and doesn’t mention it to me. He gets off late and it’s out of the way, so I don’t go anyways, but I just feel like a quick text is nice. When he doesn’t go he calls and talks for a bit before I go to bed.

Lastly, we were pretty much living together for about 6 months but our situations have changed a little this summer and we don’t see each other as much. I work the opposite hours he does and it makes it hard to see each other a lot. I miss him so much sometimes that I feel like it gives me anxiety, so basically separation anxiety. I just want to hear if you have anything similar, how you got through it and what I could do or think to change my mindset.