what does everyone think? we want to renew ours in 5 years. just because we have been through so much together heres a little of what we have been through. 3 deaths first happened when we were dating for 6 months my mom died some car hit my dad when they were coming back from palm springs the guy was going 85 down the hill and hit my dad head on mom died instantly. we just got our apartment the week before. then his grandmother were together for 2 years. next my grandma last month uterine cancer. then 2 kidnappings his ex wife psychotic bitch. our last one we had to drive from Nevada to Florida and pick up mu step kids. first one was when she had to return them from Oregon were together for only 7 months happened right after my mom died. long story short. we have gone through so much shit. we want to renew our vows. we are still together obviously and my husband has sole physical custody of his 4 kids. I have 1 and we have a son together. 6 total our marriage has been pretty crazy lately.