how long are you okay with your boyfriend or husband out drinking with their friends? what would you do if they stayed out all night and at their house after? and by "okay with" I mean what you are comfortable with. Not what you "let" your husbands do. No body should have control over Someone like that. I just meant how long can you go before you worry or get upset. So don't jump the gun and accuse me of asking something I didn't even ask.