Am i selfish for not wanting any family to give our son kisses right away? How long did you wait for family to come visit and how long did you wait for them to give kisses? The only family near us is my husbands family. I want to wait a month after baby gets here for everyone to visit. But with people who are local i was thinking a week or two. But i don’t want anyone to give him kisses because who knows if they are sick or not. Is this selfish? First time mom here