period

Christina

hello everyone! I'm in need of some advice. I got put on depo shot November 1st, 2016, the day after I had my almost 2 year old, because I wouldn't have to worry about a period. however while on the shot I had alot of anxiety and depression and my sex drive was non existent.. so may of 2017 I decided to stop the shot. my first period afrr my last shot was Jun 15 2017 and I bled until July 13, 2017. it was a dark brown but light. I thought that my period was gonna regulate after that but it didnt. fast forward a whole 2018. mind you I didn't have not one period after that last time in 2017. June 15 2018 I had a spot like period lite pink lite flow lasted three days. I logged it on here and it said my next period starts on July 11. I'm like ok hopefully after a year my period would start again. nope it doesn't. so I'm wondering maybe my husband and I have concieved and started taking pregnancy test which have all came back negative. there's still no sign of AF. no discomfort in lower abdomen my body feels normal other than bloated and alot of back pain . I do have a slipped disk in lower back so most of pain is from that and muscles spasms. I'm just confused because I was told after a year of stopping your depo shot you should get your period back. it been a year. only one period no possible pregnancy. could I still be having affect from the depo shot. i want to get pregnant again and if my body doesn't act right I can't get pregnant. I am loosing weight. I'm walking exercising. I've lost 20 pounds in 2 months. and I feel so good about it too!! I am married and it's not a happy marriage can that have something to do with it.. any ideas on what I should and need to do to figure out what is wrong.