So my sister and I are very close, best friends really. She’s a year and a half younger than me and has 3 kids. With her first she tried for 6 months before getting pregnant, 1 month with her second, and not at all with her third. I’ve wanted to get pregnant for 6 years. Part of that time my husband was sick so we couldn’t try and part of it we just had the if it happens it happens attitude and for the last year we’ve been really trying. It’s difficult though because I have pcos and have a hard time pinpointing my ovulation. And my husband has a chronic illness and sometimes we just can’t try.

So yesterday we were talking about it and she starts talking about how hard it was for her and it took her sooooo long. It’s so frustrating! 6 months I’m sure felt long at the time, but it’s really not very long at all. And it’s just insensitive to be whining about your 6 months of ttc when I’ve been at it for 6 years! It would be different if she was actively ttc, but she’s not she got her bfp. Stop talking about it! And then she also frequently says it’ll happen, you’ll get pregnant. I just want to say, You don’t know that! You were lucky and have 3 beautiful children that you constantly complain about! I would do anything, anything, for just one!