Too early I am hoping..

I used ovulation kit this past cycle, got a positive opk Thursday the 10th and we baby danced 5/7 of the fertile days. I'm 9 dpo and took a test, BFN. AF is due this coming Friday, I'm impatient. I have been crampy, tired and my breast are tender to touch (just the nipple though and more my right side) this is month #3 ttc. I give all the credit in the world to those who have been trying for a while, I'm frustrated now :-( sorry girls needed to vent! ​