my son is 5 months and he has always slept in the bed with his father and i. of course i took actions to make sure hes safe. but hes rolling over lately and i noticed that he Would change positions so it was a safety concern . glad to say he has slept on his own for 2 days and if feels amazing to sleep where i dont have to worry about him rolling too much or me moving which i dont really . also started swaddling with his arms out he does sleep with my long pillow i used during pregnancy but because he is used to sleeping on it since that's what i originally put him on and he does sleep with a small fox which again he is used to sleeping with although i took his pacifier off and put it in the pocket of the pack n play for safe keeping since it is on a string. hope it last. hes getting so big.