Ladies I have a question for you. Is it rude to tell your husband that you're not sure if you want visitors at the hospital for the first few days after you have your baby? I'm going to be having a C-section on September 8 for a twin boys and I told him to kind of keep it quiet once it does happen or even the date right now only because I'm not sure if I'm going to feel up to having visitors. Then I told him for the first few days home I really don't want people coming over either, is that OK?