Does anyone suffer vaginismus? I've had such a discouraging time with it and am still trying to work through it now with my boyfriend. I feel so alone because it is not common. Any advice appreciated. literally no girlfriends I have understand what I mean when I say that I can't have vaginal sex or put in a tampon. I can get a very small bit of finger in when relaxed and turned on only and the doctor told me I have to be put to sleep just to be examined regularly and if they don't allow my mother or sister in the room with the doctor, hell no am I going to want to do that. I'm so desperate for fellowship with this issue.