9 months of trying and losing hope

I had my reversal in Oct. 2017. I was told everything went great. Right tube wasn’t as good as left but after some clips placed there should be no problem. 9 months later and I’m to the point that I just don’t think it’s going to happen. 9 months and nothing at all. I’ve been doing everything I should and my dr won’t see me until it’s been a year even though I will be 35 next month. My cycles have been so strange since the procedure also so I’m unsure of what to think. According to ovulation strips I’m ovulating but I went from 4-6 days of heavy periods and no real symptoms of period coming except a little pelvic pain. Now for last nine months My periods last from 2-4 days, usually extremely light and I’ve had horrible pelvic pain, sore breast for up to five days before I start. I just don’t know what to think. I could use some encouraging words right now. Thanks