tips??

Question

my boyfriend has been wanting to try anal for a while and we attempted it once but made him stop because it hurt. just wondering if y’all could give me some tips on the pain or how to make it a more enjoyable experience

Answer

START SMALL!!! Invest in some butt plugs or beads and give yourself a TON of time to get used to them, working from smallest to largest. USE LOTS OF LUBE. I had to use a vibrator at first on my clit to help me relax. Once you're all relaxed, you can start trying with him. A surprising position that I like is similar to missionary with your legs pulled up so he can access you easily. Its alot less stressful on your body and can help calm you down. Another good one is the usual doggy style using a vibrator to stimulate other areas. I can usually only stand it for a few minutes even when I'm really enjoying myself. Dont be afraid to tell him when to stop. Porn stars make it seem super fun and like you can do it forever, that's so not true. good luck girl!! Anal done right is super hot and sexy, but it can definitaly go wrong without proper prep and adjustment time. The first time I tried it, I literally tore my butt. No bueno.... Give it time!

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Silicone lube, the one used for toys, and taking your time, and he should please you somewhere else while he is back there so you Can associate it with pleasure too

Answer

Lube. Lots of lube.

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