When I was 14 I was raped and ended up pregnant. I was drinking to forget the pain and didn’t even realize I missed my period, my bf at the time noticed and asked me to take a test, his mother took me to the doctors where they confirmed I was pregnant, 9 weeks and 4 days to be exact. When he found out he pushed me down a flight of stairs, I was confused he told me he wanted a baby. Yes I was 14 and ttc it was stupid. After the miscarriage I was super careful with sex and we broke up a couple months later.

This past year I thought I meant Mr. Right, I’m 16 and he’s 18. We started dating and having sex we used condoms and I’m on the pill, ONCE we didn’t use a condom and BAM! I ended up pregnant. We broke up and I hadn’t yet told him, when I finally told him he was there for about the first week, but he slowly started using drugs more, working later, sleeping 24/7 and ignoring me. I started getting bad chest pains on May 2nd so I went to bed, at 2:30am on May 3rd I woke up to blood running down my legs I was having a miscarriage.

My current boyfriend and I (2 months strong) want to start ttc but I don’t want to be left or ignored if I get pregnant am I right to feel this way?

** we both work and are set to move into our place in October**