My husband and I have sex about once a week if not more. Lately, I can tell his sex drive isn't as high because we haven't had sex in over a week. When he's feeling in the mood he just asks me to give him blowjobs. I obviously comply and do as he asks. He will finish and go to sleep. I have literally been craving sex lately and my husband won't give me any? I have asked for sex several times and I have asked for him to go down on me BC I go down on him. He tells me he will but finds any way to get out of it. I know it isn't because I smell or taste weird downstairs BC I showed before bed every night. I thought maybe he wasn't attracted to me BC we had a baby 9mo ago. I've been working out and have lost 30lbs. Also months ago he was away on a business trip and was staying in a hotel. I was home with our daughter and I asked him if he wanted to sext. or if he wanted some sexy pics of me. He told me no!? Like wtf? am I not attractive? He tells me he is attracted to me, and I question him? I know he's into this because we used to Sext each other all the time. Plus I know he watches porn. (I've been through his phone history over the years. he knows i know) And i dont mind porn. idk if this is there right group to post this in, but I'm leaving this here.