*Update*

So, anticlimactic update I guess. Maybe this will just add to the suspicion. I had honestly never even considered he was cheating. He’s just not a very sexual person, he tells me that all the time. He came home at like 10-10:30 and I was obviously upset with him. I started a small argument I guess, I told how he had made me feel. He ended to work early in the morning so I told him to just go to bed and he got all sad and said he was sorry and got all lovey so we played a game and watched some tv till about 11 and went to bed together. I went to the doctor yesterday by myself while he was at work and when I came home he had my favorite Icee in the freezer for me and some roses. I’m worried now from all the comments that he is or may be cheating. I don’t know how to go about investigating that. I was on his phone last night with his permission and found nothing.

* Update 1*

It’s now 9:12 and he’s still not home. I called his mothers house and there was no answer.

My husband keeps telling me he told me he made plans with his mom to go see a movie today at 2:00. He never told me anything about going to see a movie with her. At first I was upset because if the theater is only 10 minutes from our house and the movie isn’t until 2 why couldn’t he stay with me till I left for work at 12:40? He came up with excuse after excuse till I told him to just go at 10:30. I just wanted some time with him since I never see him anymore and he’s always with his mom. This is the first day in weeks I’d have time with him. The last time I had time with him he ditched me to go hang with his mom. Well he hadn’t showed up at about 4:30 so I wanted to know when he’d be home so I didn’t worry and I get this. So, once again I’ve just been completely left alone and don’t get any time with my husband because the second he gets home he will go to bed for work tomorrow. I called in sick today because I obviously started throwing up and running a fever. I just want to actually feel like I have a husband that loves me and wants to see me. He also won’t have sex with me. Like he straight up refuses and always has an excuse. It’s been about a month. I talk to him and he just gets mad and storms out of the house. I know you’ll all tell me to just talk to him, but I’ve tried. I just want to feel loved and wanted again.