Polarised opinions?!?!

Pamela • 32 year old mama to 1 cheeky boy and the quest for another. Used to be be a RD now stay-at-home mum

My partner and I have always been different in so many ways. It works for us , it’s what attracted us to one another . Now that we are having a baby together, our differences are more pronounced,ie I want to know the gender,he doesn’t ... and I’m finding myself less accommodating. I don’t how to start the conversation about without sounding like I’m argument hungry . Now is the time where we should be united more than ever?