Do you cry every month?

Question

Every month when I go to the bathroom and see that I have started my monthly I can’t help but cry. Will this happen every month while trying to get pregnant? I don’t want to get my hopes up, but every month it is and I’m crushed when I start? What are tips to not be so heartbroken?

Answer

Same girl, last week got my period and it’s over today but the first day I get it I do get low and very emotional I feel why am I even trying? What am I doing wrong? Will it ever happen? ... but within the next few days I get excited to try again. Now that it’s over today im so excited to start trying again because it could be my turn this month. You never know. I guess you just have to be positive. My boyfriend is always like dont worry we’ll try again it will happen. So he helps me feel better. We’ve only been trying for 4 months he says if it doesn’t happen within a year we will go get fertility help and it doesn’t happen after that we will adopt but he said either way he promises we will have our baby. 
Also I have a habit for buying baby clothes and stuff for my future baby so every month I go buy something for him/her 😊 
Last month I bought this graco glider swing super nice. 
But just keep in mind sometimes it does take a while healthy couples can take 6-12 month to conceive. I think it’s like a 30% chance every month. Stay hopeful stressing doesn’t help I’m sure.

Answer

I’m not sure if it’s possible to avoid the heartbreak. As much as I tell myself I’m not going to let it bother me, I still find myself feeling sad. I allow myself to feel the sadness and then move on. I try not to wallow in it and instead get excited for the next cycle.

Do you cry every month?

Let's Glow!

The Top Baby Tracker App: Embrace New Beginnings with Tender Care

The Top Fertility Tracker App: Your Path to Achieving Pregnancy

The Top Pregnancy App: Nurturing Your Journey to Motherhood

The Top Period Tracker for Empowering Your Menstrual Health Journey