Does anyone else on here not want a baby shower?? my mother in law insists on me having one but I don't want one I only have 2 family members on my side of the family it sucks but I rather avoid having a party. my mother in law says she will invite people (that I don't know) I appreciate her effort but I don't want one am I being selfish ? or am I allowed to feel this way? plus my husband and I will have to pay for most of it but I rather use the money to buy the baby things I need myself.