This sounds ridiculous but anyone else in my shoes?

So.. my partner is honestly the most nicest man I have ever met I have been with him 6 years I love him so much..

But...

Is there such thing as too nice?? (Im talking about in the bedroom)

My preference is rough sex not extreme but a little rough I’m not into slow and ‘romantic’

I’m talking about hair pulling, spanking, hard kissing a sort of dominant man turns me on..

We have watched porn together in the past and obviously he has seen my porn history and been like you watch a lot of rough sex and I have been honest with him and told him that it’s my preference to have a dominant male in the bedroom but he said that would be awkward to do...

I have tried little things to make things different like biting his lip and asking him to spank me and he does but he wouldn’t if I didn’t ask 😩🤦🏼‍♀️

I have tried to get him to sext with me but he literally cuts the topic of the convo off 🤦🏼‍♀️

🤷🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️

I have tried adding new things into the bedroom aka sex games, dice, dares.. it all goes well but it seems like he is too shy 🤷🏼‍♀️

I have told him what my biggest fantasy is and it involves a bit of roughness, I have tried dressing up for him too 🤷🏼‍♀️

I’m talking about something like this... not too heavy but exciting 😩

He is only my second sexual partner so o want to try different things so sex doesn’t become repetitive or boring😩

I know people will say just sit down and talk to him about it and I have and he said he will try but he thinks it’s awkward having to be dominant so I don’t know wether just to accept the fact that I will just have the same sex life forever or if anyone has any advice or tips on what to do 🤷🏼‍♀️