I had sex for the first time a few days ago. These are some questions I had afterwards.

•Why did it hurt so much? Was I not wet enough? I’ve been masturbating for years but never fingered myself. Could that be why it hurt too?? because I’ve never put anything in my vagina before?? It hurt when he fingered me and when he put it in.

•It wasn’t his first time having sex, but it was his first time giving a girl oral. How do I explain how to give me head properly, without sounding rude or condescending? I didn’t orgasm at all, he was waaay tooo rough and just made my clit over sensitive to the point that it was slightly painful.

•I had the feeling that I needed to fart when he was in me (I was on top). Is that normal? Will I actually fart? I wasn’t gassy/bloated at all that day.

Thank you for reading and replying if you have, I appreciate it greatly 💛