I'm 15 and me and every time me and my boyfriend have sex my inner lips get extremely swollen and it hurts so much. I lost my virginity to him so I don't have enough experience to understand if this is supposed to be normal for me. It hurts when I pee but only like the first few times after sex because it stings at anything touching it. I'm not allergic to latex 😕 I'm really worried because I can't go to the doctor without telling my mother. I know I'm young but I really need help please