Abstinence in relationship

Lillian

Easier said than done, no? Any suggestions on abstaining until marriage? My boyfriend and I have been together for about 9 months, we're planning on getting married late next year. We've been having sex but I think it's taking away from our relationship so I told him we should stop and wait for marriage. He said ok. I've always felt this way but I wanted to make him happy so I gave in.. until now.