Husband went to strip club

So my husband went to a bachelor party in New Orleans about a month ago. He said they probably weren’t gonna go to the strip club or anything like that because the groom didn’t want to but he will see what happens. Didn’t think much of it either way.

Well, this last weekend I was hanging out with some of the wives of the other guys who went and it came out they did go and they all got lap dances some even going to “VIP” (don’t even know what that means but I’m guessing it’s a better lap dance lol)

Well I’m stewing over this. This is the first time since we’ve been together that he’s done this (that I know of) and it’s honestly really eating away at me for two reasons...

1. I found out after the fact from someone else so it seems like he was trying to hide it

2. He got lap dance(s?) which is honestly pissing me off every time I picture it.

I feel like a psycho for even caring because most of the other girlfriends/wives didn’t seem to care. I know it was a bachelor party so I understand him going along with all the guys but why did he need to pay the money for a lap dance? To me since we’re married I’m the only one he should see naked and think of sexually. I told him all this and he apologized and said it’s really not a “sexual thing” but I think that’s BS. How can a naked woman dancing in front of you not be sexual?

ALSO, I’m 13 weeks pregnant so I realize that I’m probably being over sensitive and psychotic about this lol. We’ve had our discussion about it but I haven’t been able to stop thinking about it and getting mad.

All this to say- WHAT WORDS OF WISDOM/ADVICE CAN YOU ALL GIVE ME SO I STOP WANTING TO PUNCH MY HUSBAND IN THE FACE? lol