Date night on a boat dock and some rambling.

My boyfriend and I ever since we met I have had these crazy dates I guess. he has a pretty busy schedule due to him being couple years older and having a child. Somehow our work schedules match for days we work and days we're off. He has his son on weekends which are his days off. He spends the day with his son then spends the night or maybe 12 hours. Anytime we can get with each other is great really.

I've slept in a lot of places with him, usually in the back of his jeep. I've slept on top of a mountain a few times with him, even a Walmart parking lot a time or two. We've even slept in my driveway because it's so long. We've slept in the middle of the woods in the back of his jeep with the doors open. Huge mistake.. 30+ bug bites later.. we've slept in two hotel rooms. He's even spent the night at my house and met my mom.

The boat dock was probably by far my favorite. The first dock was fun, but the second boat dock we went to was probably the best. Him and I had talked about going swimming at the first boat dock but I didn't want to because I wasn't dressed properly for it. The second boat dock I wore a bikini there and once we got there we were in the water. It's 1am at this point and him and I are both enjoying the water and the veiw. We decide to get out after an hour of being in the water and making it fog a bit. He carried me out of the water then puts me down and starts running towards my car. I chase after because it was freezing. I grab the only towel I brought and use it to dry myself to get in the car and I tell him not to get in my car with those wet pants... He's probably gonna be mad that I said anything about this.. but, he got into my driver seat butt ass naked 😆😆😆 it's by far my favorite memory with him.

We warm up in the car and talk for a little bit. At this point we both ended up naked and out of our wet clothes. Eventually we got out and got dressed. I've learned, long pants and bug spray when I sleep outdoors.. I brought a comforter a thick wool like blanket then a thinner blanket. We folded the comforter in half for out upper boddies and used the second blanket as a cushion/cover for the boat dock so our feet dont touch it. We used the last blanket as a cover and had a tough time sharing. I'm a blanket hog and I'm not sorry.

We fall asleep to a very peaceful night and I'm woken up by the prettiest sight. I wish I had taken a photo of his sleeping face. I know, creepy but it's just precious and I adore him greatly. A truck came by and I told him we should go, but he dismissed it and went to sleep and I followed pursuit. We later on got woken up by telling fat old men and my boyfriends first response is "we're not homeless" I just told the guys that we were sorry and didn't mean to fall asleep. Just wanted a date night then to leave. They didn't care and I told them we would leave and wouldn't do it again (so they know). We end up going to the damn and sleeping there for a little while on the concrete slab. Made the blanket bed the same way and it definitely wasn't was nice but it worked with him there. We were woken up by the sirens signaling they we're flooding the dam. I told him we should go and he delays it. The water rises quite a bit before we actually leave.

We're pretty hungry at this point and it's noon so we decided to go to Wendy's. I was a vegetarian who was repolsed by meat before I met my boyfriend and now I'm sinking my teeth into Wendy's junior bacon cheeseburger and their chicken nuggets. He dropped his nuggets on the way to the table and kept walking. I picked them up as a few old couple watched me. He proceeded to eat them all later (he claimed the 5 second rule). He dropped his BBQ sauce as well which I thought was hilarious. I finished my food before he did and I really think that amazed him. I don't eat fast, but I was half way done with my burger with his one bite. We opened them at the same time.

Eventually we finish and have to leave. He lent his jeep to his cousin so he was dropped off at his local Walmart . We drove there and talked for a little longer. We crawled into the back of my Ford tourus and I told him I loved him. It was a scary move but once the words came out every felt okay. I told him the night before that I would tell him when I felt like I had a magical moment with him. I had that moment in the water at the boat dock. We do whatever it takes to see each other and make the other happy. I've never felt happier. He has a kid and I'm not even going to lie, it terrifies me. I want him and everything that comes with him though. I've met his son and he's pretty cool. We went to Chuck e cheese. It was loud. I never want to go back. But looking at my boyfriend then back at his sleeping son I felt I could do this and be happy and continue to grow.