Before I get into anything I want to say that I'm posting his because I don't have anyone to talk to about this without them being judgmental or they wanted to take action against him. About 5 years ago I used this app called kik like every other kid my age. I'm not sure how but I always got a bunch of messages from men because my body was much more developed than the usual 12/13 year old I usually blocked them and noved on. One day I got a message from someone new, he looked a bit older. We talked for a bit and he asked how old I was and I said 18 (I know I shouldn't have lied) and he says oh ok cool and tells me he is 27. We talked on and off for years and I eventually told him I lied and told him that I was actually about 14 or 15 I don't really remember but I came clean. He was mad that I lied especially about something as sensitive as my age but we never talked in a sexual manner and we didn't send pictures so we figured we were fine.. We became even closer and talked about meeting and stuff like that. So I'm 16 now 17 in November (not that it really matters) and we became a couple I guess. We talked all the time even when he was hours away at work. We said I love you over text but it was still real and amazing to me. We only saw eachother like three times and you can guess why. The first time we sat in his car and talked a little and we kissed then he left. The second time I was struggling emotionally with something and he just talked me through it and I walked home after. The third night a lot happened and I won't go into detail, we didn't have sex but I guess we performed sex acts on eachother. We both felt kind of weird about it but overall we were happy to connect on that level. So the weekend came and he left for work four hours away. I had a lot going on in my family so I just needed someone to talk to so I texted him and he replied once and I just kind of held a grudge. It had been days before I heard from him again and he explained how he didn't have signal, he missed me and had gone into town with laundry just to text me. I said ok it's fine and I missed him too and I didn't get a reply. A couple days later I texted him asking to talk about something concerning I had to tell him but his mother responded saying her son had an accident at work on the oil rig and he was in critical condition. I asked for updates and I got a couple but recently she hasn't responded in weeks and I've come to the conclusion that he is no longer living or is still unconscious. Right now I'm really heart broken and it sucks, I'm just trying to grieve I guess. But I miss him a lot and no matter what I try I can't stop thinking about him. Sorry if this ends in a weird way but whatever

UPDATE:

I just want to say thank you for helping me open my eyes... It hurts even more knowing that he could use me and just throw me away. A lot actually makes sense now

these are the messages I got from his "mother" and it does seem made up. I will take your advice and stick to guys my own age but I just don't think I can make a report about it.

UPDATE2: turns out the story wasn't a lie but I've decided I don't want to go back to what we had because it simply wasn't right.