Might be an odd question

Hi mommies ,

I was just desperate to know if anyone experienced a very bad relationship with their husband/partner while pregnant , like on the verge of meltdown but you both stuck it out for your future child? He was awful at some points etc - but you both know what ruined the relationship was nothing to do with either of you (its his family who make it difficult). You lost some respect for each other but do love each other and want to be with each other. did your relationship get better after the birth of your first child? Did his outlook on life change? Did he suddenly realise he's a dad more than he's a mummy boy?

So odd of a question but thats my life right now

Xx