Is it cheating???

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So I’ve been working 2 jobs and have a 2 year old... my husband is not helpful at all.. we have no connection. I feel that we’ve grown apart. Anyway so I meet someone at work who I have a crazy connection with, so we’ve kissed a lot he told me he has feelings for me and I do too... we didn’t do anything else yet , but I can see that happing, I just connect with him in a different level.. I’m a bit lost in this.. any advice would be great...

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umm are you really asking if this is cheating?

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Yes that’s cheating. Before it goes any further you need to decide 100% if you want to be with your husband or the other guy. You can’t have both.

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That's definitely cheating. I highly recommend to think twice. Think about your son and his father. Try to work things out. Speak to your husband. Communication is key.

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Best advice I can give is for you to leave your husband first.

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Yes, it’s absolutely cheating. In what world is that not considered cheating

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The grass always seems greener on the other side. Be careful.

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That is very much so cheating

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Yes it’s cheating

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yeah, this is definitely cheating. pick one. i mean unless you’re poly but it doesn’t sound like you care about your husband too much.

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You are going down a rabbit hole. First, I would suggest counseling and exercises to strengthen your marriage and TALK to your husband. You got married for a reason and I think you should try to fix it for at least the sake of your son.