I’m a strong believer in Christ and made a vow about 6 years ago, when I was 15, that I will save myself until marriage.

I’ve never had a boyfriend, and have found that the idea of sex excites me, and I am willing to do nearly anything when I do settle down with someone. So, I constantly think about what my relationship will be like with another man whenever I do begin dating and definitely want to show affection by kissing him. I’m interested in going a little bit further as long as it’s not sex. But my question is, where does the cut off line start? I think stuff such as kissing and holding hands are pretty simple, but what about touching him in risky areas? Yea it’s not sex but how I see it is if you’re willing to go there that may tempt me to go further. And I don’t wanna do anything that will feed the fire. So what do you suggest? Also if you are/were in a relationship while remaining celibate, how were you both intimate? Thanks!