So guys... if you have a good looking girl who is down for fun at anytime but instead of wanting to be sexual with your girl when your horny you jack off instead why is that? I would think I'm pretty kinky and open to alot sexually and usually to men they love that shit and it's a turn on to them cuz not all girls are down for everything but to my boyfreind/baby daddy. I told him that instead of jacking off alone in the bathroom to include me and do it next to me and i can help and moan and jack him off or suck on it for a minute but he said no that's weird and rolled his eyes like he got annoyed. I told him I want him to feel open with me but he doesnt seem to want to be. We fight about sex alot cuz I want it alot and he never wants it and he jack's off instead of coming to me which makes me feel ugly, and not good enough and if we do have sex he has a really hard time cumming for me but has no problem cumming while jacking off? people have said he probably has a porn addiction but he doesn't watch porn, some people said maybe if he stops jacking off he can cum but he said he doesnt jack off often so that's not the issue, some people said maybe hes gay but I know that's definitely not it. I know hes attracted to me but I just dont get why our sex life is so complicated I honestly never had a issue with a guy sexually before so that's why I'm confused of why he doesnt enjoy what 98% of men would love. I also have tried to tell him to trust me and try some new things cuz he said hes never had a real orgasm but hes just not open or adventurous in bed which gets boring. I also got upset and hurt we had sex yesterday and he ended up giving up and I wasnt fully satisfied and i tried to initiate going again but he didn't want too so when I told him sorry I couldn't make him cum after sex yesterday (which he initiated cuz he was hard and went into the bedroom which was key for let's go fuck) then he blamed not being able to cum because it wasnt a good time even tho the kids were content and fine and hes the one that initiated it at that time which is confusing? So that just makes me feel like he doesnt even enjoy sex with me and then makes me feel bad for having sex with him so idk Im so confused. I wish he could just be normal and want sex and enjoy it like a normal man does and cum for me without it being a hassle or chore. Any ideas of what may help? he denied trying a sex therapist and he refuses to open up and talk to me so am I just screwed and gonna have a shitty sex life?