Male Gynos.

I’ve been experiencing pain and bleeding during sex and other pains and aches at random times so I finally went to get my first vag check out (17yrs old). I Got stuck with an old man. He was kind of rude and grumpy but he didn’t seem like an actual ass hole. My mom had a different male Gyno a while ago who was also rude. I have a theory that they would rather come off sort of rude than “overly friendly”. Anyone else experience this with male gynecologist?