Showing Already?

Is anyone else showing a lot or having lots of bloat? I just had a little break down and started crying. I look so huge but haven't gained any weight. It's so hard trying not to compair myself. My coworker is taller and slender and a month ahead of me. She looks so cute and I keep comparing myself to her even though I know I shouldn't. Any advice or people who feel the same way? Btw I'm 9 weeks, 4 days. I swear I look like I'm in my second trimester.